Posted by: tlnemethy | March 10, 2013

In The Depths

I have a fascination with the sea, it seems. The sound of it maybe, or even the smell seems to captivate me and I’m not

sure why, beyond the devastatingly romantic notions it represents. I’m afraid of the sea because there are depths to which we don’t understand, depths that hold secrets of the past and creatures of the present, even dangers yet to be.

A little fish like me fears the water, eh? I do. I don’t like the idea of having little awareness or even capacity to avoid danger while I’m bobbing like a half chewed wine cork in the ocean. I probably look a lot like the seahorse at around 16 second mark of this video .

This isn’t Message in a Bottle; I’m not gonna magically find my way to a distant shore without so much as a scratch. Water is cold enough to seize up your breath, rough enough to barrage you with swells, and deep enough to hide a smorgasbord of creatures that usually

lurk in my nightmares. Shark Week eat your heart out. May I refer back to a previous blog entry in which I held the tentacle of an octopus (Where the Wilderness Comes To You)? Seriously, reaching into a bucket is so much less terrifying than imagining one doing an awkward octopus swim towards you before grabbing hold.

And how about the angler fish?  I don’t think I’m easily attracted to shiny things being waved in front of my face, but hey, we all have our off days. I would not want to see one of these if I went snorkeling. Finding Nemo ruined me for that.

Give me the opportunity though, and if nothing else, you’ll get some great footage of me freaking out in the ocean while unknowns swim below me. And that’s what makes anything memorable.

There’s nothing like a romance with the unknown.

Posted by: tlnemethy | March 7, 2013

Midground

One of the benefits of being in school, whether it’s the upper levels of high school or even college, is the opportunity to spend your summer doing something new. I only wish I’d jumped on that bandwagon a little bit sooner. Seasonal work is the boon of the youth. We can just up and move for months on end before our responsibilities catch up to us at our stationary home base.

The summer jobs out there are full of promise and adventure, a way to earn cash while meeting people from all walks of life who very well could become some of the most important people we’ll ever meet. Sure, you’ll have to be aware that most jobs out there that include housing will pack you into a bunkhouse the size of your bedroom back home, but instead of retiring peacefully to your own thoughts, you’ll have to listen to the creaking bed springs of your bunk mate or the constant flushing of the toilet or the snoring passing through the thin partition between the opposite sex room.

Summer jobs don’t usually provide Marriott hospitality or cleanliness, unless of course you’re the one whose supposed to be doing the providing. Learn to be fluid in how you react to things that would normally piss you off. A work environment is always more tense because you have responsibilities that MUST be taken care of or you can start the job hunt again. Add in a work environment living quarters and that frustration spills over at times.

I can live out of a backpack, but then again I’m not exactly the normal twenty-something woman. Most of the people I worked with at these housing-provided-jobs were laden with suitcases filled with non-essentials or frilly comforts from home. Seriously, I knew I was going to be covered in salmon slime for however many weeks the job lasted, so I packed one nice travel outfit and sealed it in a Ziploc bag so the stick couldn’t permeate into the fabric. The rest of my clothes were easily discardable after the work was done.

If I was to have gone on a date, I would have been wholly unprepared and devastatingly under-dressed, but c’mon, what are the odds of me finding someone I liked enough to put on some schnazzy duds and go hitchhiking to town with? In Alaska? Fair. In a fish processing plant? Slim at best.

But what do you do when the midground ends and you have to become a fully functioning adult in the real world? Do you forgo the seasonal work for something that makes your college degree proud or do you follow the experiences as far as they’ll take you?

Desk work is necessary, but there are times when I think to myself that I can ride a desk when my arthritis is bothering me or my old trick knee flares up. Why be stationary when this is the time for me to shake my joints into action before they freeze up for good?

Posted by: tlnemethy | March 4, 2013

Squirtle

After having my fingers crossed that my little lemon of a car turns out alright, it finally passed inspection and got its sticker, so beware world. Road trips are in my future. Top down, maybe not until the weather warms up a bit, but there’s nothing like a good road trip to parts unknown to break in the official maiden voyage of Squirtle.

Of course, a road trip is not quite as fulfilling when done alone, unless you’re looking for some spiritual/personal enlightenment or really need some peace and quiet for your own thoughts. Anyone up for accompanying me on this journey and experiencing the thrill ride that is my stick-shift driving? Sign up here. New England off the beaten path awaits.

But for those of you who will not be able to join me, please browse my list of best movies for the wanderer:

  1. National Lampoons Vacation (a keeper, although I’m now fearful of killing any dog mistakenly tied to my bumper).
  2. Little Miss Sunshine (this is a top contender if only for the shared kinship of a VW and my secret desires to make a fool of myself at a children’s beauty pageant).
  3. Zombieland (oh come on, we all enjoyed it and it really does put your mind into preparing for the zombie apocalypse through cardio).
  4. Everything is Illuminated (just watch it, definitely made me cry). I also now want to name my dog Sammy Davis Jr. Jr.
  5. Tommy Boy(not necessarily entirely devoted to road tripping, but the motel scene of the journey is well worth the credit placement).

PS. The Lucky Ones and Thelma & Louise were also highly recommended, but not my top five.

Now I just need to figure out some road trip remixes to keep me tuned in when the radio tunes out. Suggestions are always welcome.

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